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Joshua Bond's avatar

Great post, born of current experience. The biggest lies are closest to the truth. They can sound so convincing. And perhaps when uncovered they offer an opportunity to comprehend the truth at a much deeper level. Intuition and Instinct tell a more truthful story than the culturally-driven expectation of giving people the benefit of the doubt.

The quote by Rachel Cusk “... the problem with being honest, he said, is that you're slow to realize that other people can lie” is well noted. Biblical advice and analysis that we track through the world 'as sheep among wolves' seems a bit condescending to sheep, and judgemental about wolves but the point is taken. Perhaps 'being wise as serpents and gentle as doves' is more helpful. 'Trust God and tether your camel" is also apt. But at some point one has to let go and watch 'the right thing do itself'. I'm intrigued as to what will be the final climax, and resulting dénouement.

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Kimberly Warner's avatar

Amen. “Truth felt mainly like freedom. Like breaking out of the intensely uncomfortable and restrictive shell of untruth.” As you read in my memoir, the unraveling of family secrets not only set the truth free, but also freed my own life story and identity from an undifferentiated shroud into a much more grounded sense of self and purpose.

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